Two things make me always depressed in relation to my husband.
1. I feel that my husband prefers to spend time with other people or at work rather than with me. When I asked him why? He said that with other people he feels that he is center of attention, but with me he loses his confidence. I tried to give him more attention and the more I give him it became his excuse for all mistakes he is doing.
2. Repeatedly I mentioned to him the things I don't like and I like, but he never seem to make any effort in improving the situation. Worst of all he never feels that he makes a mistake, somehow he turned it in such a way that I feel guilty.
Now I'm tired trying to change him. I'm already on the virge of losing my control. I get irritated in almost everything. I can't discuss matters without shouting. So I decided to leave him, but some part of me tells me not to. What shall I do? Am I right on my decision? Please help me.