I broke up with my ex a little over a month ago. After the relationship ended, I was completely heartbroken! Well, about a week and a half later, I started dating this new guy. At the time, it did seem a little early to be getting back into the dating scene, but I gave this new guy a chance anyway (I think subconsciously, I felt like I was dating the ex again, because the two had SO much in common! It was kind of like a "comfort zone").
Well, I'm currently still dating "the new guy," but this weekend, to my surprise, I got a call from my ex! I had still been thinking about him a lot over the past month, and a small part of me wanted to get back together with him. So, when he called, I remembered all the great times we had together and how much I loved and cared about him. But at the same time, it was the closure I needed. I do care about him, and will probably always love him (I still consider him my best friend), but I realized that we weren't happy as a couple and we were not going to get back together.
So, here's where my dilema comes in! When I got my closure, I began to think about my current relationship. We've only dated for about a month, but we're fighting a lot, I don't feel like I can open up to him, and we're not on the same page in this relationship....he's already told me that he loves me, and I don't feel the same way about him...not yet anyway! I don't know if I ever will... He's a great guy, and I really care about him, but did I jump back into a serious relationship too soon? Is he nothing more then a rebound? What should I do?!?!
I could really use all the help I can get! Thank you in advance!!!