Dear MaryAnne,
My fiance can say some cruel things. He tells me I need to seek counciling but he refuses to go. When I want sex he tells me to go sit at a bar and I can find all I want. I am not allowed to tell him my feelings because he gets mad and threatens to end relationship and if I dont like what he has to say to get out. He often makes plans that dont include me and we rarely go out. There is very little kissing or affection, and when we do have sex its on his terms. He tells me I am crazy suffocating, and I am never allowed to have my say in anything. He was the sweetest person when we met , now he barely knows I exist. What should I do?
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