Alright, this is probably one you've never heard before but I really dont know what to do. -a few weeks ago I caught my best friend, aged 18, having sex with my 13 year old sister, thats right, thirteen! I promptly kicked him out and went for a drive to think. The next day I invited him over to talk about the situation, before I talked to him I talked to my sister about it and nothing came out of that conversation (basically she didnt see the many problems surrounding that kind of relationship and wouldnt listen to reason- all she said was that she really cared for him- and somehow that made it OK to do what they were doing). So anyway, he came over and we ended up not talking about it at all and havent since, I just can't bring it up, and he's certainly not willing to. The way things are right now, if someone outside was observing my household it would appear as if nothing ever happened. They told me that I would have to be ok with theyre relationship for it to continue and although I am blatently not ok with it, I just found out that they still see eachother during the day when I'm at work. Now, Im sure you see the implications of theyre whole relationship but when he comes into my house during the day, he's risking being caught by my mom ( which would be devestating to the quality of life for everyone involved) and also once again breaking the trust we're supposed to have as friends by lying to me over and over. As much as I don't want my mom or his parents finding out, I do feel that whats happening is wrong and can't continue but I dont know what to do about it, I sometimes want to just go and tell someone like his mom just so it can stop but that I couldnt do that to his parents or my mom and of course my sister would hate me forever. (we had a very strong relationship before this and I dont want to see her hurt either) What should I do? It would be great to get any advice at all. thank's in advance, Corey
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