Im a fat geek, Its not a derogative term, it just means im slightly more anti-social then some and I am on the computer ALOT more, and im overweight.
Im also a gamer, I play lots of games.
Im mature as far as opinions and morals go, but not as far as responsibility and 'age standards'(playing with toys watching cartoons) go. Im a big kid with morals.
The whole thing is, up until a few weeks ago I thought I wanted sex, yep thats right, im admitting something embarassing. through church sex lost most of its meaning.
the problem is now, now Ive only been on one date ever and I want a long term relationship(life long). However, due to my lack in social skills, my fear of rejection, and my general lack of experience I cant get a date, and If I had a date I wouldnt know what to do. I dont know what I want. HELP?
'Looking and finding the wrong answer is always less painful than missing out on the right answer.'
i think maybe if you focused on how you try to go with some girls you like and if that doesn't help then make the change for yourself.
ok I'm on the computer alot, Im heavy, I'll admit it. You lack social skills, you dont need to be a very social person to love sum1 and if you wanna date just to have sex then u mine as well forget it. Not every girl u'll ever meet is automatically interested in that. You dont have to be mr.popular to have a girl like u. If u have to be sumthin ur not just for a girl, then shes not worth ur time. oOo yea just so u no, there is nuttin wrong with sum cartoons =P.. heck i even watch cartoons, there cute. lol. You dont date sum1 for life, there r ppl who dont usually last that long, u last life long if u rly luv each other. I'm srry if i offend u in anyway, I just wanted u to no all that. if u wanna gf, make some girly friends and work ya way up, theyll end up rly liken u.
woooow....